Gender Switch (3.5e Spell)
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|Casting time:||1 standard action|
|Targets:||1 targeted creature|
|Saving Throw:||Fortitude negate|
Targets of this spell are instantly transformed into a member of the opposite gender. It's effects are reversible simply by casting the spell on the target again.
Only visual contact of the target and a verbal incantation are required for this spell.
You can freely designate the new form's minor physical qualities (such as hair color, hair texture, and skin color) within the normal ranges for a creature of that kind. The new form’s significant physical qualities (such as height, weight, and gender) are also under your control, but they must fall within the norms for the new form's kind.