Withdrawing from a Gestalt (3.5e Variant Rule)
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 Withdrawing from a Gestalt
A component mind may leave a gestalt as a free action simply by breaking the mental contact. This does not necessarily free that character from any mind-affecting abilities affecting the gestalt. They are considered separately and continue to affect the character normally. If the coordinating mind withdraws from the gestalt, the components remain in mental contact and can establish a new coordinator as a free action.